It's all about marriage

I found it from my wife weblog. She tried to share how marriage process is. It was terrible for her I think. She wrote it in here http://fitriyaniriduan.blogspot.com/2008/08/behind-black-n-white-wedding-photo.html

But I just thinking I'll post it in this forum. Coz, my beloved friend asked me about story behind our wedding. Enjoy...

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behind the black n white wedding photo

there's nothing I can say about my life now axcept im happy. I marry
with somebody I love..the one who loves me just the way I am, who
understands me a lot, who treats me like the most wanted women in his
life.

its been 5 years that we'd been getting along. Since the Malino crush..until the dark Cibubur
from the Kemanggisan moment, until now on the second floor 79 Mawar St.

There's love. then affection. then true love..

Its
been long that we're trying to find the real feeling we shared. And by
the end we come to the conclusion,that we need to step up
forward.marriage is the answer.

i was like a real stressful
person ever for the wed prep. My boyfriend at that time was away. and
still strunggled with his exam in Moscow. I was alone here, fortunately
there was Mila, my sister and her husband, did everything for the prep
and all the wired-out details.

The cries was burst. the yell was
shouted! i was sooo stressful. i didnt know how my life would be.
whether the wedding will be going good or not

even on the W
day. the dress didnt make me confident. It was soo miserable. i had a
bit argument with my make up & dress stylist. She's a real stubborn
to ask me to shave my eyebrow. I kept on saying, i want my naturally
beautiful eyebrow!

by the end she's declining. but then i kept
feeling disapointed with all she's done. i was whining and complaining
endlessly. soo stressful.

i said i didnt like this way, that way
and those ways she did to me. to my face. to my eyes. to my head when
she put veil and the fake, ugly ornament and everyting, all there on my
head! i think she didnt have a concept for me. she generalized my
interest. she thinks that i want to be dressed like everyone else.
wonderful and glamorous. seriously, i didnt want that!

then, i
called my boyfriend (at that time), said that i didnt like she dressed
me up, cos i was like having a bucket of selling flowers on my head,
ready to be thrown away to the sea (said my boyfriend)

fortunately
i have friends with me (SMS, Handini, Tina Potter and a friend). They
made jokes and tried to entertain me, even it was not that successful.
They are wonderful. But it me who felt weird at that time

then my boyfriend family was coming. the wedding vow was stated. Alhamdulillah..
everyone
smiles. after that i was relieved. the mood was cooling down! the
burden was lifted away somewhere. my muscles felt relaxed but tiring at
the same time. I grinded for the fisrt time since morning...then i got
menstruated!!!! :DD

then its not the first night :DD

(to be continued)

I think that marriage is the most beautiful who loves Shi minimum .. Is that true???

Yup, it's true my friend. It was most amazing moment I ever got. Your life feel completed if you married someone who you really love